Saturday, June 30, 2007

A House Full of People

These are a few pics from Hanneke's camera. All are at my house the other night with the "BIXBY" clan, except the one of Miriam and Corban. Miriam absolutely loves Corban and sat there playing with him for a long time. She is thoroughly in love with him.
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Saturday Family Night

Here are some pics that Mom has been begging for. The girl in the bottom left two pictures is Hanneke Hol from Holland. For those of you who remember meeting or hearing about Albert, it is his little sister. Albert was in Mom and Dad's church for a year. She is 16 going on 17 and is a very sweet girl and a hard worker! We had a good time as a family tonight. The first time we've been able to spend time together as it has been a pretty hectic week. Conference was good, but everyone is tired.
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Thursday, June 28, 2007

A small glimpse!

These are just a few shots from last night. We will work on getting more pictures, but it is a very busy week. Of course, Corban has charmed us all. A very sweet and good-natured baby, not to mention gorgeous!
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Official France Missionary Deputees

This is a little late, but Tim and Ruth and Michael and Liz were officially accepted by Evangelical Missions to the Unreached Intl. last Friday. They are officially deputees now!
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Monday, June 25, 2007

We sure are giddy with excitement to be seeing you all soon!!

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Great Weekend!


Thought you might enjoy seeing a few shots of the MMT while they were here. Should bring back memories for some of you :-) We had a nice time with them. We were disappointed with the number of people at the concert (about 40) but I think everyone had a great time. Sunday night they all went back to their host families--we ended up with about 23 here, so we had leftovers and raclette. It was a first for all of them except Dr. Dad and Dr. Mom--so they showed them how to go about it. Each home did something different and they all had a good time. I think the Bixby household was the first to bed.

Friday, June 22, 2007

Getting ready for the big Weekend!

We have been busy beavers around here getting ready for the MMT. They should be here in about an hour. We have 8 beds made and ready in the church salle, plus others in the bedrooms. There are 32 of them this year and they are staying in lots of different places. Quite a few are going to be with students in the dorms---that should be an experience! Besides just the "have to" getting ready, we varnished the porch furniture and made a little coffee center so the people staying here (13 plus us) can have early morning coffee whenever they want! Anyone else want to stay here? We are having the cookout on the porch tonight, Ruth!
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Thursday, June 21, 2007

HAPPY 16TH ANNIVERSARY!

It is hard to believe that you have been married 16 years already! That makes nearly 1/2 of my life! WOW! In some ways, you are totally different and in other ways, you haven't changed at all! (Notice the iron!!) :-)
We love you both!
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Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Six Months Already!

Can you believe that Jo and Brian have been married for six months! Time flies, doesn't it? Congratulations, you two. We love you both. Have a great day!
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Sunday, June 17, 2007

Happy Father's Day!

To the world's best fathers! Each of you is special and you are all wonderful dad's--including you Brian as you anticipate the future! I am a good judge as I see the results in our sweet grandchildren!

Saturday, June 16, 2007

Miriam's Catechism

We're actually stealing this idea from a friend who recently posted a video clip of her 2-year-old saying her catechisms. We haven't really worked with Miriam individually on catechism, but she listens (& participates in a limited way) to her Daddy working on catechism questions with Micaiah every morning. So while we were waiting for Micaiah to arrive at our family worship time yesterday morning, we just started quizzing Miriam, and were amazed to see how much she has already learned.

Friday, June 08, 2007

A "New" Car

Because it costs us about $125 every time we fill up our gas tank, we have been looking for a little "run-around" car that we can use for all the city driving. Tuesday, we saw one for sale on our way to the lake and Wednesday, it was ours! It is a Fiat Punto--cute little blue car. It is a 2002 but has very few k's on it.

Thursday, June 07, 2007

Baby's First Picture!


We had an ultrasound today! Baby looks great--about two inches long. Unfortunately there is a tear in the placenta and I have been put on complete bed rest. This is going to be a big trial for me, but I know that the Lord is in control.
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Micaiah's BD party

Micaiah had quite the gathering for his birthday! In attendance were Papa & Me-Ma Pahnke, Oma Pahnke, Uncle Richard & Aunt Tara, Cousin Sophia, Aunt Donna, Uncle Brian & Aunt Johanna, and, of course, Mommy, Daddy & Miriam. So he was well celebrated! Just for your info, the bike helmet that he received didn't come with a bike, but hopefully it will help inspire him to keep working towards earning the promised bike! It was a fun evening. When asked what he wanted for his birthday dinner, he only asked for "meat." So we grilled pork loin chops. Of course, at his actual birthday party he was so keyed up by all the excitement, I think he only ate two bites. (And the second one I made him take!) Nonetheless, he DEFINITELY enjoyed his birthday. Hard to believe I'm the mother of a 4-year-old!

Thanks again for all the phone calls and gifts. That helicopter from the MN Bixbys definitely rated! He received it via UPS on Monday, and so we allowed him to open it up right away. And Gpa & Gma, the shirt went on the very night of his party! He's been a spoiled little boy, and sure has been enjoying it!
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Tuesday, June 05, 2007

HAPPY FOURTH BIRTHDAY, MICAIAH!

Our little toddler has left toddlerhood and become a little boy! He is growing up so fast! I remember the day he was born--I wasn't suppossed to be in Greenville, but "happened" to be here. It was exciting! It's been fun watching him go through all the different stages of growing up. Joyeux Anniversaire, Michée-Calvin.
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Saturday, June 02, 2007

Repas Des Femmes 2007

Well, the mother\daughter banquet is over for another year! It really went well and we were pleased. We had 37 for the meal and 5 helpers (plus JJ and his kids). The salle was "different" but cute. We decorated with purses. All the games were about purses. Hyo Soeng did a skit with me--and I about flipped everyone!! They thought it was hilarious. I guess most of them were seeing me in a "new role." For some reason, my tennis shoes cracked them up :-) It was fun. Valerie did a great job speaking. The meal was good, too---I can't brag on it too much since I was the cook. The clean-up crew was fantastic, but oh, do I have a lot to put up.

...and the Baseball Game


After the picnic we walked to the stadium to see a baseball game. Greenville lost-oh well! We had fun and also got to enjoy fireworks at the end of the game!
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Micaiah's Birthday Picnic!


We had fun celebrating Micaiah's birthday at Falls Park downtown. As you can see, he conquered the great waters by walking across on the rocks! We had a fun time together!
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Friday, June 01, 2007

These Strange Ashes: Is God Still in Charge?

Here goes a feeble effort to summarize a book I just finished reading. I am neither expressive like my brother, Bob, poetic like my brother Dan, succinct like my brother Tim, or eloquent like my sister-in-law, Ruth, but I humbly offer my very short summary, opinion, and lessons learned from this book.

In her book, These Strange Ashes, Elisabeth Elliot Gren shares the memories of her first year as a single missionary in the jungles of Ecuador. When Elisabeth first arrived, she was stationed for 6 months in the larger city of Quito, where she studied Spanish along with several other single missionary candidates including Jim Elliot. After those months of training she went off to the jungles of the Colorado Indians, while Jim went the opposite direction to the Quichua Indians.

Elisabeth and 3 other single missionary women were stationed in a little village (really nothing more than a clearing) called San Miguel de los Colorados. The difficulties of the living situation are far beyond what any of us could imagine, and Elisabeth found herself immediately frustrated with the great amount of time spent “surviving” and the small amount of time spent “ministering.”

During her year, she learned 4 major lessons. Each lesson was accompanied with a difficult experience that tested her faith. The first lesson came after the death of a village woman whose family was very much against the Evangelicos. Elisabeth began to question God. Why would He let this woman die when He knew there was so much at stake in the situation? Did He not care that they were the ones to administer medical care, the ones that would be blamed for her death? Elisabeth said that as she questioned she seemed to look into an abyss, finding “nothing there but darkness and silence.” It was sometime later that she was able to accept that God’s ways are not man’s ways. That God sees the whole picture, not just what is immediately visible to our concept however righteous our concept might be.

The second lesson came after the murder of her primary language informant. God had sent Macario to her in direct response to prayer. He spoke both the Indian language and Spanish fluently and helped Elisabeth begin putting the Indian language into written form. Elisabeth was devastated. How could the work of the language continue without such a person? It was during this time that she learned lesson two: the lesson of “bow[ing] down before that which I could not possibly explain.” “Faith’s most severe tests come not when we see nothing, but when we see a stunning array of evidence that seems to prove our faith vain.”

Lesson three came at greater personal loss. After Jim’s proposal to Elisabeth, she had given her all to completing the alphabet for the Tsahfihki language in order to finish as quickly as possible and move to Jim’s area of Ecuador to begin language training there. Through many difficulties and trials, as she no longer had a formal informant, Elisabeth finally succeeded in completing the alphabet on June 16, 1953. She then trained the other missionary woman in the alphabet, the phrases she had learned, and the pronunciation so that they could begin teaching the Indians how to read their own language. She was then transferred to the Eastern jungle to begin learning Quichua. Shortly after her arrival, she received word that the entire alphabet, all of her notes, charts, and files, had been stolen. Everything for which she had just dedicated the last 10 months of her life was gone. “Why dost thou hide thyself in times of trouble?” She begged to have an answer. It was then that she realized that “to be a follower of the Crucified means, sooner or later, a personal encounter with the cross.” … “There is a certain reticence to infer that our little troubles may actually be the vehicles to bring us to God.” It took Elisabeth some time to realize that God had possibly allowed this to break her own heart, to prepare her for harder things to come.

The fourth lesson actually came through experiences that Jim encountered. Shortly after their engagement and Elisabeth’s move to the Eastern jungle, Jim contacted them by radio with the sad news that all of his hard physical labor (of his entire first year) of building missionary homes and buildings had been washed away in a flood. Elisabeth’s heart cried out to the Lord again, asking why He would allow such things to happen when they were giving their all to Him. The answer seemed to come through to her aching heart: “faith, prayer, and obedience are our requirements. We are not offered in exchange immunity and exemption from the world’s woes. What we are offered has to do with another world altogether.”

Elisabeth says that many times God used hymns to sustain her during times of testing and trial One hymn that became dear to Elisabeth during dark times and encouraged her faith when it seemed there was nothing to cling to is by Georg Nuemark.

If thou but suffer God to guide thee and hope in Him through all thy ways

He’ll give thee strength whate’er betide thee and bear thee through the evil days;

Who trust in God’s unchanging love builds on a rock that naught can move.


Obey, thou restless heart, be still, and wait in cheerful hope, content

To take whate’er His gracious will, His all-discerning love, hath sent;

Nor doubt our inmost wants are known to Him who chose us for His own.


Sing, pray, and swerve not from His ways, but do thine own part faithfully.

Trust His rich promises of grace, so shall they be fulfilled in thee.

God never yet forsook in need the soul that trusted Him indeed.

Georg Neumark

Though I feel guilty giving any frank opinion of Elisabeth Elliot’s writings, I, while humbly recognizing that in no way could I write (or live) like she does and has, feel that this book is basically a haphazard attempt to recall events of her first year on the mission field and derive some lessons from them. It is more journalistic in nature and seems to jump from one story or event to the next. The continuity of the book seems somewhat lost in the recollections of many years past. However, I was reminded of my own selfishness and lack of trust in God and His sovereignty. Certainly the things that she had to endure strengthened her faith in God and helped mold her into the remarkable woman that she became. If I could have but a portion of her knowledge and love of/for God, I would be grateful. She is truly a woman that God has used greatly in thousands upon thousands of lives. I highly recommend the book, as it is an encouragement to see that such a great woman struggled with many of the same things I struggle with--just in a different environment.